What is your root fear?

Your root fear: what are you avoiding?

One of the questions I encourage others to ask of themselves most often as a Life Coach is “WHY am I doing what I am doing?“. With procrastination, asking this question allows us to uncover the root fear. We go through life, often as breakneck speed, moving from one task to another, switching roles and…

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little by little, a little becomes a lot

So now what? Making one small change.

Last week, I was musing about the importance of starting the year well: by beginning at the end and working backwards.  Humpf, you say. That’s all well and good, ….but now what?  Those questions I posed last week are huge in their scope. How wonderful to have a week long retreat to do full justice…

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choose a proactive life

How to live a proactive life.

How was 2020 for you? No, you have not read that wrong, nor have you done a Sleeping Beauty and slept throughout the entire year.  A new year has begun, and a new decade.   (unless you are a pedant like MB who believes the new decade only starts at the END of this year.…

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Looking across a bridge reaching into the woods

A free gift to deal with clutter

So, lovely reader – how have you found these recent musings on clutter? There has been a lot of content that has taken you through a clear process: The trend for decluttering that is sweeping our nation, but my own take on it. As you read that post, what tops YOUR list of areas to…

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Behavioural insanity

Addressing behavioural insanity

They say that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting different results. Who “they” are remains debatable, although this quote is widely attributed to Albert Einstein.  For the purposes of this week’s musings, it matters not a jot.  What DOES matter is being aware of when we are falling into…

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Your secret super power - change the way you respond

What is your secret super power?

What is one of the most important and life changing realisations you can make? Or to put it another way, what is your secret super power? For me, it would be this: This quote was shared by a friend recently on Facebook. For your secret super power is of course CHOICE. How often do we…

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Make 2019 your best year ever

A template to make 2019 your best year ever

Such a cheesy title, I know. Jumping on the bandwagon of so many other lifestyle gurus and experts. But hey, if everyone is talking like this, there must be some merit herein, surely. And do you want to make 2019 your best year ever? This is important from my perspective because life coaching is about…

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Benevolent detachment

This could be the most important thing you do this year…..

Earlier this week, I was speaking to a wonderful group of people about what it means to start the year well. And in the course of that talk, I posed a number of potentially year-changing questions to prompt thought and reflection. As always, when I am speaking to groups, I find that I can easily…

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Growing new roots takes time

Growing new roots takes time

I came across this tree on one of my regular walks along our local riverside. What struck me about it was the shear size of the roots, exposed as they were. Some wider than my hand span – thick, coiling reptiles that snaked off under ground. Talking with a client recently, there was frustration expressed…

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