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Taking time to think, as inspired by Winnie the Pooh.

Think think thinkIt was the wonderful Winnie the Pooh who used to sit looking puzzled, tapping his head and exhorting himself to “think, think, think.” He always comes to mind when I am consciously taking time to think, in a contemplative, reflective sort of way.

This has been a week of celebrations of all different sources and sizes.

Some have been momentous.

A wedding – the start of a new life together for two besotted people.

A birthday – another year older and opportunities opening up in the year to come.

Some have been shared with clients – achieving milestones both large and small, but always with tremendous satisfaction and fulfillment. And always a joy to me in this line of work.

Some have been more challenging – closure on a difficult situation. This could have been very different, and quite difficult. But with time, careful consideration, honesty and mutual respect, a good outcome for all parties was reached.

As I was considering what to muse on this week, I see a common thread in all these celebrations.

Taking time to pause and think.

The following phrase has been a little refrain of mine for a while now – enjoy the process. Too often I find myself already rushing on to the next thing – mentally if not physically – before I have even finished the current thing. And in so doing, often miss the little chances to pause.

To stop and reflect.

To just take a moment, to not miss any little morsels of wisdom we might glean from our various experiences. Enjoying the process for me is about taking time to think, to be consciously aware of what I am doing, why I am doing it, and why it is important. In this lies learning and growth.

At the wedding, there were reminders aplenty of the new stage of life that the couple have entered into, with all the associated joys, challenges, and rewards. But the day itself simply whips past at a phenomenal rate, and how important it is to stop momentarily throughout the proceedings and take a mental snapshot of all that one’s senses are being bombarded with – precious family and friends, delicious food, beautiful surroundings, joy and celebration, and so many emotions.

With the milestones reached, I am reminded of the importance of taking time to take stock of all that has gone before. To ask yourself questions like –

How did I arrive at this place?

What have I learned along the way?

What am I thankful for?

Where perhaps did I miss opportunities?

What might I have done differently?

So too with a difficult situation requiring closure. The temptation is to bury it in a mental box labelled ‘Never go there again’. But the scary, courageous and honest thing to do is to unpack everything that might be tucked away in that box, look long and hard at conversations, decisions, emotions, perhaps wrong assumptions made, and be prepared to learn.

Taking time to think allows us to reflect on our choices and behaviour, and to learn, change and grow.

Like Winnie the Pooh and his thinking: never easy, but always important.

 

 

2 Thoughts on “Taking time to think, as inspired by Winnie the Pooh.

  1. I loved Winnie the Pooh as a child. I can’t think what happened to my stuffed Winnie!

    • Catriona Futter on October 23, 2017 at 12:22 pm said:

      I loved him too, still do! Such lovely stories. Sorry about your toy – these momentoes of childhood are so precious. Thanks for reading and stopping by!

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